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Even if you really cannot think of anything to initiate a conversation
with a girl, whatever you do, don't break the 3s rule! Act in 3 seconds
nevertheless, even if you have no idea, how to continue. If you act in 3
seconds, she will notice it, no matter where she just popped in from or
where you popped in from or how you happened to pass each other by in a
given geographical location. She will see the spontaneity in your approach
and it will work in your favour. If however you wait and hesitate and then
decide to approach, you are in a decidedly weaker situation. The 3 second
rule is extremely important, in one night using this rule you can talk to
many ladies.......
If you just arrived and
accessed her in 3 seconds, she will know it was spontaneous because she
noticed you arrive whether she wanted to or not - you were a change in a
static environment. Or if she just arrived and you accessed her in 3
seconds, she will recognise the spontaneity of it again, because you
couldn't have accessed her before - she simply had not yet arrived. If
however you just pop out of nowhere - she didn't see you arrive neither
did she just arrive and the only change in a static environment was you
accessing her - you just might set off her stalker alarm. Who knows, how
long you've been following her or watching her in secret or gobbling her
up with your eyes. Spooky! Argh, get away you freak! So the only
way to avoid a situation like that is to use the 3s rule. Besides not
setting off any alarms of her because of the obvious spontaneity of your
approach, you are also doing yourself a favour.
In three seconds, you
have no time to become sweaty, trembling, stuttering - to acquire all the
sure-fire signs of an AFC lacking any confidence, substance or
consequence, a failure with women and life in general, a complete
repellent of beautiful girls. So even if you start sweating, stuttering
and trembling while talking to her, you weren't that way when you
initiated contact - you just didn't have the time for that. And it's
the first impression that counts. And if that first impression of you
was that of a confident and spontaneous man, her feelings for you were
positive from the start, which in turns greatly the diminishes the chances
of you turning into a plateful of jelly while having a conversation with
her.
The 3 seconds rule of course is not an absolute - you may simply
not have noticed her, while not specifically being tied up with something
that might have stopped you from approaching her, or while still noticing
her, you might have been busy with something (or somebody:). The three
seconds start counting from the moment you have spotted her AND are free
to approach. But when these two conditions are met, you really don't have
the time to ponder, whether or not SHE noticed that you didn't approach
her because you were either too busy or simply oblivious - the clock is
ticking, so move it!
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